Let's Talk Finances with my Boyfriend 😊 | Splitting Bills, Prenup, Combining Finances, His Net Worth
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00:00 Meet Sebastian
02:11 How we met
04:34 His job/work history
08:17 Long term money goals
08:44 His net worth
10:55 Where he spends the most
12:33 How we hold each other accountable
15:37 Does Sebastian set and track money goals?
17:05 Where we see ourselves in 5 years
17:59 Where we agree/disagree/differ
21:38 Do we feel financially secure?
22:11 How much he has in savings
23:14 Combining finances
25:05 Do we have money discussions?
26:10 How we split bills, vacations, food out
29:21 Disagreements about money
30:56 Do I manage the household finances?
31:09 His workout routine
31:52 Will I ever go back to a 9-5?
31:59 Buying a house together
32:11 How he saved down payment
33:36 Where we want to travel to
36:06 Money in the beginning of our relationship
39:03 Me paying HIS mortgage/if we broke up
41:50 Getting married
44:22 Moving in together
45:33 Would we become landlords?
46:18 Thoughts on giving money to family
47:23 Thoughts on splitting bills based on income
48:16 Major home purchases/maintenance
49:00 Our views on a prenup
50:28 Spending limits
51:32 Taboo topics in our relationships
52:57 Did he always support/believe in my dreams?
54:10 What if something happens where one can’t provide?
56:22 How specific do we talk about money?
57:37 His eyebrows lol
58:13 Do we spend more time together now?
58:55 DINKs or grow family?
59:26 Sebas summarizes everything
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